Straight friends, neighbors, and allies:
Many of you may know that today is a very special day for those of us in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities. Today is National Coming Out Day and for some of us it’s a day of celebration, others a day of reflection, and for most all of us, a day of solidarity.
I wish you a Happy Coming Out Day!
I also want to give just a few suggestions in case you’re lucky enough to have someone come out to YOU today. You see, aside from just remembering and celebrating our coming out stories, today is a day when many #LGBT people begin to come out of the closet, and I want them to come out to YOU!
First, congratulations. If you’re someone that a person feels that they can come out to, you've clearly done your job of letting those around you know that you've got strong convictions and solid values and that those include support - or at least consideration - for LGBT people. Thank you!
Secondly, you’re not expected to know anything more about LGBT people than you did before this person came out to you. In fact, you may even learn that what you did know wasn't exactly correct either.
It’s okay! Really.
Just take it slow, ask some questions, and keep in mind that none of us was immune to bullying, peer pressure, or insecurity. So be prepared to help a friend when they may need you most.
It’s a good thing!
And to those of you who are considering coming out today, or in the days ahead. The rewards of being who you are and who you were always meant to be far outweigh any pitfalls and setbacks you've imagined. There is a huge community of people out here, waiting for you to help you find your way. We love you. We've been where you are; and we know it's hard to open that door. But the best things in life aren't things, they are people. You deserve to live your best life. We are waiting for you to be true to WHO YOU ARE. You won't regret it, I promise you.
Love,
Noah
For more resources, check out PFLAG here: http://community.pflag.org/
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